Anonymous asked: I'm glad you said something about that sex video. Dudes talmbout "take it." Um what? Shit like that is why I have such high sex anxiety when it comes to men. Too much power complex & this idea that uncomfortable pain=good (for them.)
yep. it’s actually pretty gross. i know so many guys who will power-hammer a pussy and think that equals having good sex. and the lack of communication is what worries me the most with shit like that. idk i feel like the point of sex is to make sure that you pleasure your partner and having a big dick is nice but if you’re just ramming it into a girl over and over again in an effort to “make sure she don’t walk straight” and your idea of pleasure is all tied up in stretching her out or making it hurt or “beating it up” and you don’t pay attention to what she needs and wants and feel smug about that. you’re a fucking gross ass human being imo.